<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[OCL]]></title><description><![CDATA[OCL]]></description><link>https://mcndar.wixsite.com/organizedchaoslife/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2026 07:26:05 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://mcndar.wixsite.com/organizedchaoslife/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[Love Remains]]></title><description><![CDATA[I apologize for not writing in a long time. I have been lost. Distracted by the noise and trying to make sense of it all. Trying to find...]]></description><link>https://mcndar.wixsite.com/organizedchaoslife/post/love-remains</link><guid isPermaLink="false">65945f5d3d2e0d46020efb2c</guid><pubDate>Tue, 02 Jan 2024 19:09:27 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Faye</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[New Year, New You: Parenting Edition]]></title><description><![CDATA[The dawn of a new year is like a blank canvas, offering the opportunity for renewal and growth. As parents, this is our chance to embrace...]]></description><link>https://mcndar.wixsite.com/organizedchaoslife/post/new-year-new-you-parenting-edition</link><guid isPermaLink="false">65945feaf2a6b954ae1625dc</guid><pubDate>Sun, 31 Dec 2023 05:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/ff6de2_f90e900c391943aca437e80ffae87c6f~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_518,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>J. Griffith</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Did you Scrapbook?]]></title><description><![CDATA[When I was in my teens, I was REALLY into scrapbooking. This was back in the early 2000s, before the days of Facebook and Instagram,...]]></description><link>https://mcndar.wixsite.com/organizedchaoslife/post/did-you-scrapbook</link><guid isPermaLink="false">64d28f4df6849177c7fabb11</guid><pubDate>Tue, 08 Aug 2023 19:10:50 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>J. Griffith</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Stop questioning your wife's right to be tired...]]></title><description><![CDATA[I want to talk about something that I feel men don't realize when they complain about lack of sex in their marriage, because I keep...]]></description><link>https://mcndar.wixsite.com/organizedchaoslife/post/stop-questioning-your-wife-s-right-to-be-tired</link><guid isPermaLink="false">622bd5f8958fed1df1695728</guid><category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category><pubDate>Wed, 08 Jun 2022 03:55:26 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/ff6de2_26a0acf6ebc94d29be5c07102a938749~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_862,h_853,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Faye</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[You changed...]]></title><description><![CDATA[Do you ever feel like he is in love with what what used to be? He used to be amazing. He would take you on dates. Go the extra mile to...]]></description><link>https://mcndar.wixsite.com/organizedchaoslife/post/you-changed</link><guid isPermaLink="false">622bb2f35168dd1d9ddbb3fb</guid><pubDate>Sat, 09 Apr 2022 04:00:00 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Faye</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Key]]></title><description><![CDATA[If you are to break down every word that I have ever said to you in an argument, I bet they would all look similar.  But you will...]]></description><link>https://mcndar.wixsite.com/organizedchaoslife/post/the-key</link><guid isPermaLink="false">622bd2d04afdb5fe78b2c8d0</guid><pubDate>Sat, 12 Mar 2022 05:00:00 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Faye</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Weaponized Incompetence]]></title><description><![CDATA[As women we are always tired of have to be "on". We need to switch off sometimes. Does your husband help with house work or does he not...]]></description><link>https://mcndar.wixsite.com/organizedchaoslife/post/weaponized-incompetence</link><guid isPermaLink="false">622bc56ab08b5d30ea73c42b</guid><category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category><pubDate>Fri, 11 Mar 2022 22:07:24 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/851ee9a3fdd542869ddff81ccaf27cd9.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Faye</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[You think it is withholding?]]></title><description><![CDATA[First, you can’t withhold something that you are not entitled too in the first place. But out of curiosity when was the last time you...]]></description><link>https://mcndar.wixsite.com/organizedchaoslife/post/you-think-it-is-withholding</link><guid isPermaLink="false">622bbb8c677a83fa00b31774</guid><category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category><pubDate>Fri, 11 Mar 2022 21:21:16 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/7f0602b673e4f493610272aea2d960a5.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_956,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Faye</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Participating in your marriage is not a reward]]></title><description><![CDATA[Participating in your marriage is not a reward, it is the bare minimum! Does your husband feel entitled to your body because he married...]]></description><link>https://mcndar.wixsite.com/organizedchaoslife/post/participating-in-your-marriage-is-not-a-reward</link><guid isPermaLink="false">622bd3f16ecbce1b5db8769c</guid><pubDate>Fri, 11 Mar 2022 05:00:00 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Faye</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Men do have pride.]]></title><description><![CDATA[So many men seem to measure of women's love for them with sex. Like you can't feel appreciated with penetration.  But has it ever dawned...]]></description><link>https://mcndar.wixsite.com/organizedchaoslife/post/men-do-have-pride</link><guid isPermaLink="false">622bcdf9d0ffeabd24264890</guid><pubDate>Fri, 11 Mar 2022 05:00:00 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Faye</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Can't you see he is in pain?!]]></title><description><![CDATA[Today is a loooooonnnng day: (1) 8am Wellness Appt for Orion Kenneth Griffith, which equaled 7 shots and fluoride on his teeth … out at...]]></description><link>https://mcndar.wixsite.com/organizedchaoslife/post/can-t-you-see-he-is-in-pain</link><guid isPermaLink="false">622bb79b74d516b109d0b597</guid><category><![CDATA[Toddlers]]></category><pubDate>Thu, 10 Mar 2022 21:00:25 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/ff6de2_d6c0d6d42cbf481f8bd808d36110179f~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Faye</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[You think I don't communicate?]]></title><description><![CDATA[You say I don't ask for help? That I don't vocalize my needs and wants. But think again as you tend to say I am constantly nagging. I do...]]></description><link>https://mcndar.wixsite.com/organizedchaoslife/post/you-think-i-don-t-communicate</link><guid isPermaLink="false">622bc08c03260ac310ee39ec</guid><category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category><pubDate>Sun, 06 Mar 2022 05:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/8e2a95a81bd67d6d59f9fc086239d1be.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_852,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Faye</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[You say that is the problem...]]></title><description><![CDATA[You say that is the problem right there. That I should stop trying to change you and accept you as you are. 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Dear Husband, Let's get this...]]></description><link>https://mcndar.wixsite.com/organizedchaoslife/post/do-you-work-hard-or-harder</link><guid isPermaLink="false">622bcbbd4620fab820b15677</guid><category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category><pubDate>Fri, 25 Feb 2022 05:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/529c4ca304ad4138b0cc6bf9b13832d8.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Faye</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Is this forever, or is this the end?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Is this forever, or is this the end? 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Griffith</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Impossible is not a word, it is just a reason]]></title><description><![CDATA[(1) When you find yourself asking for help...or a relative actually goes out of their way and helps you and you didn't even know what...]]></description><link>https://mcndar.wixsite.com/organizedchaoslife/post/impossible-is-not-a-word-it-is-just-a-reason</link><guid isPermaLink="false">621fc0dfbbc489dc188d791b</guid><category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category><pubDate>Sun, 13 Feb 2022 05:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/ff6de2_e0b697c93a9347709b5e0899c3cae956~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>J. Griffith</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Is there anything worse than hearing your husband say "I'll do it later..."?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Please tell me I am not the only one... "Can you please take the trash out?" you ask for the fifth time while your child wails with the...]]></description><link>https://mcndar.wixsite.com/organizedchaoslife/post/is-there-anything-worse-than-hearing-your-husband-say-i-ll-do-it-later</link><guid isPermaLink="false">621fb48b2aefa9c9de42a3d0</guid><category><![CDATA[Marriage]]></category><pubDate>Tue, 01 Feb 2022 05:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/f4a2eb10b3154a8a8c1bcda2e37e94c0.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Faye</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The burden feels heavy and I just feel so stumped.]]></title><description><![CDATA[People say we should separate. Or they become biased, as they cannot believe that I am still with him. I love him! I do love him, and...]]></description><link>https://mcndar.wixsite.com/organizedchaoslife/post/the-burden-feels-heavy-and-i-just-feel-so-stumped</link><guid isPermaLink="false">621fc96e68fd1ba23967e47d</guid><pubDate>Wed, 19 Jan 2022 05:00:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/11062b_2a55fdcdab4e4e9aa893887b5612bebf~mv2.jpeg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Faye</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[What To Do If You're Afraid Of Losing Your Child In A Crowd]]></title><description><![CDATA[There is nothing like the fear of realizing you've lost track of your child. Heading to a street festival or amusement park is all fun...]]></description><link>https://mcndar.wixsite.com/organizedchaoslife/post/what-to-do-if-you-re-afraid-of-losing-your-child-in-a-crowd</link><guid isPermaLink="false">61e19c375bc28d001696b78b</guid><category><![CDATA[Family]]></category><pubDate>Fri, 14 Jan 2022 17:23:43 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/11062b_b4c7021a4df14e079dfed48186a32ee3~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>J. Griffith</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[I Really Miss the Romance in My Marriage]]></title><description><![CDATA[After completing the 10th step in my son’s bedtime ritual, I said goodnight and collapsed on the couch, with our youngest in tow. I was...]]></description><link>https://mcndar.wixsite.com/organizedchaoslife/post/i-really-miss-the-romance-in-my-marriage</link><guid isPermaLink="false">61798bb8f7d1560016fb46a6</guid><pubDate>Wed, 27 Oct 2021 17:57:56 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/11062b_8b98ec6d4cf84baa80d2f449bbfe7be8~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Faye</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>